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I gravitate toward fiction, especially if it contains elements of gay men, dysfunctional families, time travel or the Sweet Sunny South, go figure. I also enjoy the occasional history and biography. $15.95 ISBN-13: 9780757003332Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 days Published: Square One Publishers, 06/01/2009 I thoroughly enjoyed Elliot Tiber’s memoir, which, as they say, is now a Major Motion Picture. The movie did a fine job portraying the second half of the book – the legendary festival that might never have happened if Tiber had not mentioned that his upstate neighbor Max had a big old dairy farm – but it was the early part of the book that captured my heart.
Tiber describes being a closeted young homosexual in an era when gays were beaten, jailed and fired with no support from any quarter. He beautifully describes his sexual awakening, and his progression coming out in that era (affection coming much later than sex for young gay men.) Once he was no longer living with his abusive parents - his mother belittled and manipulated him while his father merely punched him – he began to find himself. For a nice Jewish boy from Bensonhurst, he really did encounter a lot of major personalities of the day. He ran into Marlon Brando and Wally Cox in a gay bar in Manhattan, and they all went to a private party together. He got picked up by a kinky leather dude who turned out to be Robert Mapplethorpe. The artist Mark Rothko sobbed on his shoulder because he couldn’t achieve the blackest black for one of his paintings. And Tiber lived in the same apartment building as a dissipated Tennessee Williams, who introduced him to an equally washed out Truman Capote. Tiber powerfully describes the crushing toll of the all-pervasive closet in that era, setting the importance of the events of June 28, 1969. Tiber was at the Stonewall Inn when word came out the police were about to raid. This time the patrons fought back, and history was made. Tiber describes it all (and debunks a long-held urban myth about the evening). This well-written memoir, while a colorful trip back to the Sixties, is timeless in it’s humanity. $18.00 ISBN-13: 9780312428327Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 days Published: Picador, 04/01/2009 This is one fun read. Realizing he knew little about the early European explorers of America (besides Columbus and the Pilgrims), the author retraces their paths with care for history and an ear for the absurd. The author cheerfully debunks many of our cherished myths about the early explorers and colorfully depicts America then and now.
Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex (Paperback)$14.95 ISBN-13: 9780393334791Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 days Published: W. W. Norton & Company, 04/01/2009 Much like her earlier books Stiff and Spook, Mary Roach's Bonk is informative and outrageous. This time she broaches the history of research on the sexual behavior of humans (and some other species), which, for a variety of reasons, has long been the most stunted, thwarted and unscientific area of scientific endeavor. Roach's regard for the absurd and her loopy sense of humor make her a delectable guide through this ill-regarded intellectual outback.
You get mounds of information with Roach, some of it educational, some of it startling. Roach cheerfully describes the sexual fads, misinformation, quackery, gimmicks and gizmos that scientists and patients have embraced over the years. Her delicious asides, quips and footnotes are what make her books such fun to read. For instance, there was more than plenty of information about artificial insemination of sows in Denmark, but I am truly glad to have learned the little tidbit that only male pigs and male humans fondle the breasts of the female during sex. Many observers have made the connection between men and pigs, but few with Mary Roach's credentials. This will give you an example of the author's style and attitude. Writing about the 70-year history of relaxing pictures on the gynecological exam room ceiling, she states: "back in the early eighties, no women's health center was complete without the ceiling poster of a ring of redwood trees shot from below. So ubiquitous was this image that I cannot, to this day, look at a redwood and not feel as though I should scoot a little lower and relax." Bonk is fun, informative reading. Michael Tolliver Lives (Paperback)$13.95 ISBN-13: 9780060761363Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 days Published: Harper Perennial, 06/01/2008 This is one incredibly satisfying novel. Armistead Maupin revisits older, wiser Michael Tolliver and his friends in present-day San Francisco. Some of the old Tales of the City gang are still around (Brian as well as the ever-fabulous Anna Madrigal) while others have moved and more are only memories. Michael has a new lover and a new lease on life after a nearly fatal battle with HIV.
This book is wise and sexy and has tons of heart. In one major sub-plot Maupin reveals his anger at red-state style hypocrisy when a family emergency summons Michael back to Florida. But unlike the earlier novels the air of giddy discovery is replaced by a palpable sense of loss and self-knowledge. Maupin continues to knock us out with his only-in-San-Francisco brand of humor. What other novelist would give us a stripper whose real name is Shawna but who goes by the professional name of Mary Margaret -- "Customers dig it"? Reading this novel is like visiting an old friend who knows you so well that he leaves you crying with laughter. My Lucky Star (Paperback)$13.99 ISBN-13: 9780316013352Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 days Published: Back Bay Books, 11/01/2006 Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive. True statement, but, hey, but what would farce be without it?
The award-winning writer of the Frasier TV series has produced a hilarious send-up of Hollywood pretense and duplicity in his new novel. Philip Cavanaugh, a character from earlier Keenan novels and perhaps Keenan's alter-ego, knows he should not be pretending to be an accomplished screenwriter but his moral compass goes haywire when he gets near closeted Hollywood heart-throb Stephen Donato. What a delicious mix. Stir in wanna-be writers of variable integrity, dueling star sisters of a certain age (think Blanche and Jane still working), pretty boys a little too willing to give some head to get ahead, a studio exec with an ego the size of an elephant and a brain the size of a peanut, a pushy publicist who looks like Ernest Borgnine in drag, as well as sex, lies and videotape and you have the plot in one very nutty shell. In Joe Keenan's Hollywood all is sham. Cavanaugh finds himself working both sides of a rapidly vanishing fence as he writes a screenplay for one star of certain years and helps pen the memoirs of her bitter rival and sister. The screenplay of Casablanca is (incredibly) sold as original. A former child actor hires male hustlers and calls it "acting lessons". A screenwriter impersonates a policeman to disastrous end. Keenan is one demented comic genius. No one else would dare come up with the idea of a screenplay based on Amelia Earhart's further adventures after her plunge into the Pacific, or a "male bordello where you could bring the wife and kids". The jacket promises (and the book delivers) "the single most ill-judged sex act a married megastar has ever committed" all on videotape, no less. Have some fun! Read My Lucky Star. The Known World (Paperback)$14.95 ISBN-13: 9780060557553Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 days Published: Harper Paperbacks, 06/01/2004 What an incredible book! While this is a novel, it is based heavily on the historical record. (If there were not such records, one might be tempted to shelve the book in fantasy/alternative history). The setting is the rural slave state Virginia in the decades before the Civil War. The author describes the intertwined lives of several Virginians in their known world (one Manchester County), including slave-owning whites, black slaves, free blacks, poor whites, and, most incredibly, a proud group of slave-owning free blacks. Ante-bellum Virginia seems a combination of the Old west, where justice is always swift and sometimes fair, and the days of the Bible, where slavery was common and approved, and where slaves were enjoined to obey their earthly masters. To his credit, Edward P. Jones never romanticizes this time or place. The lives of the slaves are brutal: a sweet twelve-year-old boy is worked to death one day, a very pregnant slave woman is forced to work until she goes into labor (and loses the child). I have never, in fiction or any other written form, felt such revelation as to what it must have been like to be a slave. Small details of their brushes with what we might call civilization illustrate their deprivation. A little slave girl is delighted by the crude whittled doll her father makes her, clutching it on her deathbed decades later, free and aged. A slave man is invited to sit in a chair at an actual table and eat from a real plate, and is clueless as how to behave. One slave is dumbfounded at seeing potted plants inside a house, knowing the work required to make a roof sound. Jones unfolds the story from the middle, (the deathwatch for a black slave-owner Henry), telling his tale in a matter-of-fact style. We meet Henry's slaves, his parents, his wife and her relatives, his former owner, the former owner's white and black children, the free Negroes of the area, as well as the law (the sheriff as well as patrollers who scout the roads at night for runaways). He introduces some nasty characters, such as an Indian who supplements his income with his knife, defacing or hobbling repeat runaways, and a rogue patroller who knowingly kidnaps a free black man and sells him as a slave. Americans learn in fifth grade history that the War Between the States came a few short years after the events in this book. To the author's credit, he does not belabor that point and he does not turn The Known World into another war saga. He simply describes incidents, rough or refined, in the lives of his characters, usually before but sometimes after the War, with detail and irony. There are scenes which brilliantly delineate the differences in mindset between those who believe that humans can be property and those who do not. One remarkable sequence has wedding guests from Philadelphia who are silently appalled when a Southern bride is presented with a young slave girl as a present. A black man and his father, both freed slaves, come to blows over the younger proudly buying himself a human. The Known World is one powerful and unique piece of literature. The Story of the Night (Paperback)$15.00 ISBN-13: 9780743272711Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 days Published: Scribner, 05/01/2005 Is there something peculiar about Argentina which engenders so little affection, trust or loyalty in its own citizenry? Here in Tucson, I knew a woman for ten years who always called herself Greek. Last year, while telling me her sister was coming for a visit, I learned that she and her sister were born and raised in Argentina to Greek parents: I find it astounding that she does not identify as an Argentinean. Anyway, Colm Toibin's The Story of the Night is an exquisitely written novel about the arc of one gay man's life in Argentina during the time of the Generals and soon thereafter (the Seventies and Eighties.) Argentina is seen as a country where the promises of the government are invariably lies: the country's stated wealth is poverty, strength is weakness and pride is humiliation. And the gay life in Argentina mirrors society as a whole: secretive and fearful. Unspoken boundaries restrain every life. The book is told in the first person of one Richard Garay, born of an Argentine father and English mother. He is an outsider on so many levels: a gay man but closeted to almost everyone, including himself in his younger years. He has practically no sense of being an Argentine, but is bemused by his mother's pro-Thatcher Union Jack waving. He works as an English teacher and then a translator/liaison, never fully identifying with any group. (The author makes minimal use of quoted dialogue, which makes the story of Richard even more interior and isolated.) Describing the central character, one line stands out. An American woman (CIA?) whom Richard has befriended, tells him that Argentina is a dreary backwater and he should get out, he declines, stating that he is happy and has no plans. She shakes her head. "You've always been like that, a mixture of such good sense and an amazing lack of something. I don't know what it is." Though not directed or motivated, the Richard character does achieve a certain degree of connectedness, friendship, success and finally love. A great character portrait of a man adrift and a great description of a dysfunctional society, Colm Toibin's Story of the Night deserves its place on the Lambda list of the best 100 gay novels of all time. Birds of A Feather (Paperback)$15.00 ISBN-13: 9780143035305Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 days Published: Penguin (Non-Classics), 08/01/2005 This atmospheric mystery is set in England in 1930, and features as the central character Maisie Dobbs, a private investigator. The plot begins with Maisie Dobbs being engaged by a grocery store tycoon to find his missing daughter who could be anywhere. This device allows the author to describe lots of different English settings, from city streets to country horse farms, from nursing homes to pubs to nunneries and from the upstairs to the downstairs of fine manors.
This mystery is successful on so many levels. First of all, it captures England in 1930, a society still plagued with a profound sense of regret and loss from the Great War which had ended twelve years earlier. The wounded are not just the veterans standing in bread lines; they are large numbers in all classes of society who lost someone in the bloody, needless conflict. Additionally, through the central Maisie Dobbs character, the author is able to touch on themes of class and gender in a thoroughly entertaining manner. Maisie Dobbs is a private investigator who has lived in two worlds. As of 1930 she works as a private investigator (even employing a wounded veteran herself), putting her in a small minority in '30's England of self-employed women. As a teenager, she had been sent by her father to join the small army of servants "in service" to a titled family, and now she is a trusted friend of the nobles, putting her in the position of knowing intimately but not belonging to either the upstairs or downstairs of the house. The Maisie Dobbs character is interesting and compelling. She is a professional woman in a man's world, and not purely a member of any of England's traditional classes. She doesn't pretend to look to a husband, boyfriend or employer for direction in her life. (Her fianc War Against the Animals (Paperback)$18.99 ISBN-13: 9780312335397Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 days Published: St. Martin's Griffin, 09/01/2004 This novel was a strongly written study of the clash of two cultures in one little town in upstate New York. The main character, Cameron, is a gay man from Manhattan, cultured, traveled, middle-aged, and an AIDS survivor. He hires two brothers from an old down-on-its-luck local family to do repairs on his property. They are everything that Cameron is not -- healthy, crude, young, uneducated, muscular, and straight. The older brother is a redneck and proud, and Cameron is drawn to the moody younger brother Jesse.
Cameron is among the first generation of AIDS victims to recover a degree of health after new drugs were introduced in the late Nineties. Like most gay men at century's end, he enjoys his circle of friends, but his memories of friends lost in the plague are enmeshed in his every day. The author contrasts Cameron's achingly poignant memories of his perfect love with Toby, one of the first to die in the epidemic, and his hesitant stabs at dating as a middle-aged positive. Paul Russell is keen observer of the differences between the weekender gays and the small town working folk, both sides baffled by the other. The gays relax with garden parties and cosmos, the locals with drag racing and whisky. The gays like to visit nature quietly with cameras and walking sticks, while the locals like to dominate with ATVs and guns. Locals complain that the city folk remove perfectly good aluminum siding when they buy old houses, and the Manhattanites are appalled that the locals would actually prefer to straighten out old winding country lanes. The author is equally adept at finding the voice of Cameron, who has seen and lost too much but still wants love in his life, and young Jesse, who is torn between loyalty to his family and his undecided wants and desires. War against the Animals is a well-crafted novel which should appeal to any lover of literature, gay or straight. A Home at the End of the World (Paperback)$14.00 ISBN-13: 9780312424084Availability: Special Order - Subject to Availability Published: Picador, 07/01/2004 Michael Cunningham wrote two novels before his award-winning novel The Hours. First was the excellent At Home at the End of the World. It is foremost a study of three young adults (a gay man, a straight man, and a straight woman) whose mutual friendship both maintains and constrains them. At Home is the kind of "gay" novel I enjoy most, in which there are fully drawn gay characters as well as fully drawn straight characters, each trying to meet life's challenges. The author skillfully details the pain of growing up different and as well as the feelings of love and loss among gay men in the time of AIDS. Cunningham tells his novel in the first person from the point of view of four characters. We meet Jonathan as an only child who likes quiet indoor games and refuses to surrender his beloved doll. He befriends Bobby, a dark quiet soul whose life has known too much tragedy too early. The story is also told by Jonathan's mother, Alice, resigned to an unsatisfying marriage, who philosophizes "few fates are wholly disagreeable: If they were we might do a better job of evading them." Also narrating is Claire, a woman the adult Jonathan meets in New York, who wants a child. It is a balancing act that Cunningham almost completely pulls off (but the Bobby character, supposedly inarticulate, is simply too well spoken when he tells his tale). Cunningham keeps coming back to the theme of family: biological families we struggle within (and mourn for when they are gone) as well as constructed families we build to give ourselves a feeling of home in the world. Cunningham's descriptions can be wonderfully droll: "one of the beauties of living in Cleveland is that any direction feels like progress." This beautifully written novel was a joy to read. Sleep Toward Heaven (Paperback)$13.99 ISBN-13: 9780060582296Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 days Published: Harper Perennial, 03/01/2004 Amanda Eyre Ward's debut novel is an intimate portrait of three women whose lives collide during a brutal Texas summer. In Gatestown, Texas, twenty-nine-year-old Karen Lowens awaits her execution with a host of convicted serial killers on death row. In Manhattan, Dr. Franny Wren, also twenty-nine, tends to a young cancer patient, and resists the urge to run from her fiancé and her carefully crafted life. In Austin, Texas, brassy Celia Mills, a once-vibrant librarian, mourns her murdered husband. Over the course of the summer, fate pushes these eerily recognizable women together, culminating in a revelation of the possibility of faith, the responsibility of friendship, and the value of life. "Sleep Toward Heaven is a luminous story of murder and desire, solitude and grace -- a rare literary page-turner where redemption seems perpetually within arm's reach." The Hemingway Book Club of Kosovo (Paperback)$13.95 ISBN-13: 9781585422937Availability: Special Order - Subject to Availability Published: Tarcher, 02/01/2004 I picked up a copy of the Hemingway Book Club of Kosovo because of the curious title. What gives--are European Muslims particularly into reading mid-Twentieth Century American writers? But the book was an intriguing memoir by an American woman who taught English to a group of young Kosovars - just a year after NATO bombers had driven the Serbs from the largely Muslim province of the former Yugoslavia. In the fall of 2000, the author's husband volunteered for an American Bar Association project in Kosovo to help create a new legal system. The author went with him and found a job teaching English. Finding a copy of The Old Man and the Sea, a book with short, straightforward sentences and a powerful message about personal commitment, she invited her students to join her in an American-style book club. Hence, the Hemingway Book Club of Kosovo. She was gratified that her students were individually warm, hospitable, and intellectually thirsty (having been deprived of education during a decade of Serbian apartheid), but they had major prejudices. Although they spoke the Albanian language, they regarded Albanians as thieves. And her students, having suffered years of terror by Serbian militia gangs, had a blood loathing of Serbs she could not shake with reason or reading. The war had been over for a year but there still were reminders: checkpoints, land mines, international peacekeepers, and gunfire in the night. The author and her husband lived in Prishtina, a city that physically escaped the Serbian ethnic cleansing campaign (unlike the countryside), but which was still as trashy, polluted, and charm-free as it had been in the Tito era. Her rented house was bigger than most in the city, but nothing like back in the States ("the radiators don't work, the water and electricity are likely to disappear at any moment and there is no phone system."). The city was in the midst of a construction boom, but that was largely due to the spending of NGO's (non-governmental agencies) who would leave once the future of the area was secure. The Kosovars she met (and she admitted that after eight months she did not meet a single Serb) were unabashedly pro-American. She was keenly aware that while Kosovars focused hopefully on the US, Americans were barely aware of Kosovo (and this before 9/11). And her students, mostly in their teens or twenties, genuinely loved their parents to a degree far beyond their young American counterparts. The book abounded with vignettes, some silly, some serious. One of Huntley's student's families had lived as refugees in the US for six months. They all worked odd jobs and were helped out by a rich Uncle Wolfar who would stop helping them if they made too much. Uncle Wolfar? -- welfare! In Prishtina, women working for International agencies were advised not to get pregnant for six months after leaving because of all the toxins. (And what of the local women?) In rural Kosovo, a bride was shot, killed and secretly buried after her wedding night when it was discovered she was not a virgin. This was a well-written, observant book with much to say about human potential and aspiration (in the face of years of inhumanity) as well as the healing power of literature. Skipping Towards Gomorrah (Paperback)$16.00 ISBN-13: 9780452284166Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 days Published: Plume, 09/01/2003 In recent years, there has been a rash of best-selling books by conservative social commentators (Bill Bennett, Robert Bork, Pat Buchanan, etc.) that tell Americans that they have allowed themselves to become awash in sin and are therefore going to Hell in a Handbasket. Too much indulgence, laziness, gambling, sex, drugs and rock & roll. Dan Savage, sex advisor and social commentator, has written a piercing, witty book in which tells he basically tells those busybodies, "Boys, (and Dr. Laura), get off our backs." It is not that Savage is amoral. Quite to the contrary, he embraces the wisdom of the Founding Fathers. Savage asserts that the phrase "the pursuit of happiness" is an important, purposeful passage in the Declaration of Independence: deciding what we want to do for enjoyment has always been part of who we are as Americans. Unlike Bennett or Bork passing judgement from an ivory tower, Savage hits the road a la de Tocqueville, seeking out "sin" throughout the land, in such dens of iniquity as Las Vegas, New York, Dubuque, Iowa and Plano, Texas. Savage uses the Seven Deadly Sins as a framework for his investigation, but, really, most any leisure activity that one American enjoys another American will find immoral, useless, unhealthy, unwise, pointless, corrupt, politically incorrect, morally depraved, beneath comment, worthy of denunciation, or worse. The author really does his investigative roadwork. Inside of one week in New York, he purchases the escort services of a female prostitute ($500 an hour) and on a separate occasion her bodybuilder boyfriend (much less expensive). (No sex, exactly). While some of the sins correlate perfectly to his reporting (Gluttony and the National Association for the Advancement of Fat Acceptance -- NAAFA) others are a stretch (Anger and handgun classes in Texas). As in all good travelogues, it is the unexpected which provides the reader with the most fun. Savage is not predisposed to enjoy guns, but finds to his surprise that he is a good natural marksman. While he is openly gay, he finds it silly that every year a big old street party is called a Pride event. A great part of Skipping Towards Gomorrah is the humanity that the author finds amongst the "sinners". He meets a couple of intelligent, well-spoken swingers from Buffalo Grove, Illinois, (Lust) and gets tips from crusty old casino dealers (Greed). The chapter that had me laughing the hardest was on pot smoking (Sloth). Our professional scolds are aghast that so many Americans choose to smoke marijuana, citing statistics that pot costs $100 billion in lost productivity in the U. S. every year. Savage points out that Americans 1) are the most productive workers on the planet and 2) smoke more pot than any other workers, and concludes that the $100 billion figure is nothing more than smoke. Savage skewers the social conservatives with skill and glee (all this in the year before Bill Bennett was found to have a problem just saying no at the gaming tables). I look forward to anything else the man writes. Last Summer (Paperback)$14.00 ISBN-13: 9780758204066Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 days Published: Kensington, 07/01/2004 Last Summer by Michael Thomas Ford is the quintessential summer read: as tasty as a snow cone on a hot August day -- and just as substantial. This is the author's first novel, and here he is not the humorist readers might remember from earlier essay collections. Instead he ventures (successfully) into the world of sex, sand and secrets that straight novelists have examined for years. It begins, in the classic summer beach book manner, with Memorial Day Man Trouble, and ends with a Labor Day picnic where the evil-doers have been banished back to the cities and true (same-sex) love conquers a heck of a lot. Coincidences abound. Our hero, Josh, has fled Boston for Provincetown after his lover has admitted infidelity. After taking a room in a gay B&B, he goes to a laundromat where he finds himself compulsively folding some stranger's shirts (not the only time while reading the novel I groaned out loud "you've got to be kidding" and kept turning those pages). The clothes belong to a hunky handyman who the very next day is pounding away on Josh's roof. There were variations of stock characters that are found in these kinds of novels, but most of them grew on me. I think I cared most about the very inexperienced boy straight off the bus from the Midwest (Hannibal, MO, no less), who in the course of the summer separates friends from users and finds himself. One complicated character is the local man due to be married at summer's end. And there is the broken-hearted drag queen who finds she has a lot to give. You are not surprised to find the Hollywood heartthrob with one foot out of the closet. But the out-and proud Black lesbian who is a secret Julie Andrews fan? ("You've got to be kidding"). But hey, Last Summer succeeds on its own terms as warm weather fun. Geography Club (Paperback)$8.99 ISBN-13: 9780060012236Availability: Usually Ships in 1-5 days Published: HarperTeen, 03/01/2004 I haven't read a young adult novel since, well, since I was a young adult (many moons ago), but I was attracted to this novel by it's unusual central premise. A small group of gay and lesbian high-schoolers purposefully devise a boring-sounding club which no one else will want to join so they will have a safe place all their own to go after school. Thus, the Geography Club. The central character is a young man named Russel. He is a nice guy who wants to do the right thing and seems ready to explore his burgeoning gay sexuality, but is painfully aware of the social minefield that high school can be for any student deemed different. In a 21st century twist, Russel anonymously meets another gay boy online only to discover that the boy is a jock from his school he already knows and likes (a little too much). Brent Hartinger nails the geography of high school cliques (the Land of the Popular to Outcast Island) with jocks, lefties, intellectual nerds, theater crowd and druggies unfixed between the two. And the author perfectly describes the geography of fear and secrecy for a young man just discovering himself (he describes the locker room as "enemy territory"). Hartinger details the competing pulls of old friends (from whom there are secrets) and new allies (with whom there is no past), and the conflicting wishes of a young man to fit in at school yet be true to himself. My only quibble would be that adults and family are pretty much absent in this novel, but by setting all the action among the teens themselves it concentrates the feel of social pressure. |
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